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The war at home
In other words, for every soldier who serves in a war zone abroad, there are ten children who are endangered in their own homes. This is particularly tragic, since it is very difficult for growing children to recover when the source of terror and pain is not enemy combatants but their own caretakers.
The body keeps the score
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Same Sex Marriage 6th Circuit Court Ruling
Imagine a society without marriage. It does not take long to envision problems that might result from an absence of rules about how to handle the natural effects of male-female intercourse: children. May men and women follow their procreative urges wherever they take them? Who is responsible for the children that result? How many mates may an individual have? How does one decide which set of mates is responsible for which set of children? That we rarely think about these questions nowadays shows only how far we have come and how relatively stable our society is, not that States have no explanation for creating such rules in the first place.
At the same time the definition proves too much for it would have no limiting principle. It would lead to the redefinition of marriage to include everyconsenting adult relationship. As the court explains:
Their definition does too little because it fails to account for plural marriages, where there is no reason to think that three or four adults, whether gay, bisexual, or straight, lack the capacity to share love, affection, and commitment, or for that matter lack the capacity to be capable (and more plentiful) parents to boot.
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Levitical Blessings and Curses in a Skeptical Age
It’s Time for Leviticus to Offend the Cultural Right
In our journey through Leviticus we have highlighted a number of issues that those on the skeptical side of our culture take issue with.
- God doesn’t want Israel to eat shell fish or bacon
- God’s ideas about purity make women leave the community during menstruation
- People must be separated even for non-infectious skin diseases
- God kills the sons of Aaron for a procedural mishap.
- God gives rules about sex, some of which contemporary people find unjust or unfair
So much of the book of Leviticus will confuse, challenge or offend those who are on the cultural left as understood by Jonathan Haidt. The cultural right, may find the book anachronistic but not be insulted by ideas of purity and loyalty. They may easily mentally understand cultural distance and the need to translate ideas and concepts from one time to another and thus simply quietly passing over Leviticus as inoffensive but perhaps somewhat outdated because of Jesus and the new covenant.
What we discover in Leviticus 26 may become a challenge for them too.
“I could no longer tolerate the let downs”
While many may walk away from the Christian faith from the Western cultural left for by judging the morality of the God they find in the Bible, I think many others walk away from the cultural Right for far more practical reasons. Here is a man who says his de-conversion happened over a 10 year period in full-time Christian ministry.
In the last ten years I began to see that no matter how much faith or belief I had God was and did not work. Oh I thought he did. I pretended he did. I duped myself in to believing on some level that he was really there for me. In that time a dear friend who de-converted in 1999 asked me this question: “Steve, what has Jesus really done for you this week, this month, this year?” I came up empty. All the trite answers I could give him were just fluff… stuff I had really stopped believe after many, many disappointments with God.
I wasn’t really looking to leave. I just kept searching for reasons why God was not answering my prayers and helping us. So I left because I could not believe it any more. I could no longer tolerate the let downs.
Blessings and Curses in Leviticus
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In the last ten years I began to see that no matter how much faith or belief I had God was and did not work. Oh I thought he did. I pretended he did. I duped myself in to believing on some level that he was really there for me. In that time a dear friend who de-converted in 1999 asked me this question: “Steve, what has Jesus really done for you this week, this month, this year?” I came up empty. All the trite answers I could give him were just fluff… stuff I had really stopped believe after many, many disappointments with God.
I wasn’t really looking to leave. I just kept searching for reasons why God was not answering my prayers and helping us. So I left because I could not believe it any more. I could no longer tolerate the let downs.
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Surprise! No one Expects Brain Plasticity! And Why It Impacts our Relationships and Our Spirit
Surprise! No one expects brain plasticity!
In The Body Keeps the Score the author writes
Note also
You will find not only the assertion about brain elasticity in just about every other popular “brain book” you find today but you will also find that it is assumed we receive this information as a surprise.
“Surprise! drugs, behaviors, and significant relational events reshape the brain!”
Why should we be surprised? That is the more interesting question.
If your leg it shot by a bullet you bone may be shattered and you will not be able to walk. If a knife severs an artery you will bleed. If it severs a tendon you might not be able to more your arm. If you lift weights your muscles become larger and stronger and your bones stronger. If you watch TV all the time your muscles atrophy and your arteries clog up. Older people who keep their brains active stay sharper. These things don’t surprise us.
So what did we imagine the brain was?
We might have thought it was like a radio, that no matter what is playing on it the electronic circuitry of the radio remains the same. Maybe we thought it was like a computer chip. No matter what we are doing with it the hardware (but not the electron flow) remains the same. Why did we think this? We mostly assumed it.
Our Deep Connection to Each Other and Our Past
So what we do in life, how we treat one another, who we are, all shapes us at a very deep level. It not only matters what trauma you suffer but at whose hands you suffered it matters. If a biological mother abandons her child the brain of the baby is shaped. If a father verbally abuses his son, as opposed to a stranger, the brain will be shaped in a different way. Our relational world shapes our brains and our brains shape our relational world. Anyone who has paid any attention to psychology since its inception knows that not all relationship are of equal importance and that relationships and events in our past shape our future relationships and events. We know that sometimes consequences can be devastating and at the same time there is hope for change. The brain remains plastic even if in decreasing measure.
Our spiritual worlds are also relational worlds. Part of the thesis of secularity is that your religious or spiritual life is incidental, private, inconsequential. The shape of your relationships will in fact shape the brain to impact future relationships and spirituality and religion will do the same. This too should come as no surprise. Sin shapes us. Virtue shapes us. Our practices shape us. The realization of this should too come as no surprise.
We are always being shaped into something. The mechanics of our brain tell the story. What are we being shaped into? That is the important question.