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Revisiting Utah and Indiana SSM and Religious Liberty Laws
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Attitudes of Millennials Regarding Sex according to Pew Study

The Atlantic based on the Pew Research piece
It is interesting that the article talks about “how conservative” they are, but that judgment speaks of the values of the author.
- 37 percent think “sex between two adults who have no intention of establishing a relationship” is morally wrong. 21% says it depends on the situation. Does this mean that nearly a third say it’s cool?
- 71 percent of Millennials felt that marriage is still a relevant institution (although more black and Hispanic young people said marriage is “old-fashioned and out of date” compared to whites and Asians)

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Dreher on SSM: What If I’m Wrong?
John (pro-SSM) says
David Brooks said it best in one of his earlier NYTimes columns: we shouldn’t merely have a right to marriage; society should be pressing gay couples to marry. We need the marriage culture too. Though we don’t have to worry about unplanned pregnancies we do have to worry about STDs, AIDS and the children we adopt. Adultery affects our families as much as it affects straights. Sex outside of marriage should be discouraged.
Laurie (contra-SSM) says
The questions in this article also elide more basic discussions about the ontology of homosexuality and whether a condition constituted by subjective feelings and volitional acts should be included in anti-discrimination policy and law. To recommend such a discussion is not an endorsement of ill-treatment of those who experience same-sex attraction and act on those feelings. Rather, the intent is to draw attention to the illegitimacy and danger of allowing a condition so constituted to be added to policy and law. Why just “sexual orientation,” which is a dubious and proposition-laden rhetorical weapon? Why not include any and all other conditions constituted by powerful, unchosen, and seemingly intractable feelings?


Why do traditional church LGBT conversations always focus on sex?
Eliaz Cruz
Why there is no one gay lifestyle, Justin Lee
I appreciate your point here. It reminds me of Peter Brown’s review of Kyle Harper’s book. Pastors make a lot of noise but is anyone really listening? The same pre-occupation might also be felt by singles. By the time someone becomes a church leader they are usually a heterosexual parent of teens or adult children. Sexual partners have a way of becoming sons and daughters in law and parents of grandchildren. Not as often of course with SS couples. Sex is an area where parents quickly lose control of their children and anxiety is a great breeding ground for anger and anguish.
Here’s the quote. http://www.nybooks.com/articles/archives/2013/dec/19/rome-sex-freedom/