It is a marriage or a culture divide?

A good piece by Ross Douthat in the NT Times on the changing culture wars. Some initial impressions.

Marriage has always been an economic and social class instrument. Read Stephanie Coontz http://www.amazon.com/Marriage-History-How-Love-Conquered/dp/014303667X. She might have to write a second book about how love couldn’t hold marriage better than money.

This bifurcation of the church though is also nothing new. Social dislocation impacts the church too. I’m also reading a biography of John Newton. He became a preacher in the church of England while the Methodists were capturing many in the underclass. Today we have Presbyterians and Pentecostals. The church is richer for both probably.

I think there is also a cultural lag at work too. The church is often a reactive body to rapid social change and social change in our time is rapid. Reactive responses are often uneven. We are seeing a surge in responding to middle class threats but probably a lag right now for the American underclass who have been brutalized by globalization. Uneducated Americans face competition from immigrant labor at home and very cheap factory labor abroad. Church movements often impact different segments of the church differently.

A hallmark of American cultural middle class was the family structure. This family structure became the epicenter of a lot of conservative Christian angst. “Focus on the Family”, “Family Values”, etc. What exactly is the relationship between 20th century northern-european family culture and Christian culture? What is the relationship between evangelicalism and this family culture? I don’t know how we can answer that.

In Latin American there are Roman Catholics and evangelicos. In many places you can see the evangelical lift where once the man no longer plays around, no longer spends family money on tobacco, gambling, male amusements and alcohol suddenly there is more money at home and the kids get an education. Up the evangelicals rise in society. Is that what will happen? I don’t know.

I have long noted the wavelength of my ministry. I address some people well and others not so well. I tend to connect with the educated, or even the self-educated. I do less well with the Jerry Springer segment of American culture.

I wouldn’t count the church out, however. Throughout history the church has had various awakenings among lower classes. It may in fact come to the US from Africa, Latin America and Asia and look more Pentecostal then Presbyterian.

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The new post-nihilism polytheism

Bill Harris on CRC-Voices passed along a fascinating piece from the NYTimes blog: “Navigating Past Nihilism” by the chair of Philosophy at Harvard.

A few initial thoughts:
1. There is always a frame of reference problem we have with noting this conception of “the good”. Multiple “goods” have simultaneously existed throughout the world of course. Europe was such a “cave” but so was China. What life in a place like CA offers is living compressed between China, Europe, Africa, Pre-european America, etc. This context pushes the questions about the existence or our capacity to know the universal, hence Nihilism.

2. Existence is ultimately its own justification. That’s part of the reason I push articulating the gospel as resurrection opposing the age of decay.

3. He is very much on to something not so much in advocacy but in the author himself become an example of how people are trying to be post-nihilistic. People create their own caves and paint on the walls. It is a justification for the evolutionary-biologist etiology for religion. We need the cave so we make it ourselves. We fear the nihilism so we decide to be meta-narrative agnostic and paint pretty pictures on the wall only now imagining ourselves sophisticated and so always, only half knowing that we really are making up these stories ourselves.

4. Thoughts on the book of Ecclesiastes came flooding in. There are hints of Qoheleth in this piece. The best we can do is enjoy whatever sop God throws at us…

5. His third paragraph is grippingly dead-on. This is the world I live in in California. I know places and caves where this is not the case, but his description here of the concept that “God is dead” is correct. If “God” is understood as that foundation upon which a society is built, then that God is no more at least as we draw our political/cultural boundaries.

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The Invisible (via Vinoth Ramachandra)

This line caught me: “If only we had some true friends, some who saw us as more than convenient tools for shaping their own desires!” from “The Invisible Man”

When I think about the age of decay what grabs me together with Isaiah 60 is that to God none of these are invisible.

(Karin writing again. This is reinforcing the thoughts of my early posts Slumdog Millionaire and The View From Below). In October the Commonwealth Games are to be held in Delhi. The chief minister  Sheila Dixit is anxious to make Delhi a “world class” city so that the “shining India” image of a dynamic, booming economy is maintained. Billions are being spent on new constructions, from much-needed Metro stations to luxury apartments to house the f … Read More

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Authentic Partnerships (via Vinoth Ramachandra)

Another wonderful post by Vinoth Ramachandra. (Yes, I’m reading through bunch of his posts in one sitting.)

To me all of this highlights the enormous challenge of partnerships and the walls that our cultures and contexts create between us as well as the necessity of humility to bridge them.

Several people have asked me to expand on my comments about partnership. I indicated in my last post, as well as in many earlier ones, that those of us who live in centres of political and financial power can, through simple neighbourly actions- writing a letter to a national newspaper, buying shares in a corporation so that one can attend the annual general meeting and raise questions about that corporation’s global practices, organizing a peace … Read More

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Who Says “No” to “Mission Trips”? (via Vinoth Ramachandra)

Wow. I’m so pleased to find Vinoth Ramachandra’s blog. For me it is such a breath of fresh air! I hosted and helped out a number of such “mission trips” in the Dominican Republic and really resonate with his ideas and the ambiguities such trips involve.

Here is a staggering statistic that I came across recently. Robert Wuthnow, the eminent sociologist of religion at Princeton University has estimated that up to 1.6 million American Christians take part in overseas “mission trips” each year, with churches spending at least $2.4 billion per year on such trips. What is unsurprising is that many of these 1-3 week “mission trips” are to the Caribbean and Central America, with luxury resorts such as t … Read More

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Two Churchy Rivals

There are two frauds that haunt the church: pietism and moralism.

(Disclaimer: A note on my use of the word “pietism”. We use that word to describe a very important and I think godly reform movement. That’s NOT what I’m talking about here, but the form of the word in this little vocabulary is too clear to pass up. You’ll see.)

Piety is devotion, what we love. Every Christian ought to be pious and have piety. Jesus ought to be center of Christian devotion.

Morality is behavior, what we do. Every Christian ought to be obedient to Christ. Morality is about doing good.

Pietism (as I am defining it here) is living by the implicit belief that says “If I am devoted to ________, then God is obliged do _________ for me.”

Moralism is living by the implicit belief that says “If I am behave in such and such a way, then God is obliged to do __________ for me.”

Both pietism and moralism are false religions and are not true. We regularly find ourselves believing in them even though every village atheist has demonstrated the lies that they are. We see people devoted to God suffer all the time, just like everyone else. We see people obedient to God suffer all the time, just like everyone else. Jesus himself who was perfect in devotion and obedience was thoroughly abused and mistreated and was wrongfully executed at a young age.

These beliefs haunt the church and their filters infiltrate and subvert nearly every sermon, message or interpretation of the Bible. They are so pervasive I find myself constantly having to consciously having to examine my own thought to see how they are operating in my heart.

The Gospel is of course a different thing entirely. The Gospel is pure freedom both on God’s part and our own. The Gospel is God’s costly but non-obliged rescue of us. True piety is our free and unconditional love of God. Morality is our free and unconditional obedience to God. There is no contract, only free covenant. In God’s freedom he loves and rescues us from ourselves, the devil and the age of decay. In this new freedom we freely express gratitude for that gift through devotion and obedience.

Pietism and Moralism yield anxiety, anger, threat, self-righteousness, smugness, pettiness, and ultimately bondage and frustration.

Gospel yields rest, strength, freedom, mutuality, love, joy, peace and a future that is open and expanding beyond any expectation we can generate.

The two churchy rivals of moralism and pietism are always with us and we must continue to take conscious steps to distinguish gospel from them.

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The Antithesis

As I continue to ponder Romans 15 in the context of last week’s passage (Romans 13:11-14) I can’t help but think about the antithesis between Paul and Jesus’ teaching and what all of the world presses me to believe.

Paul is very clear in many places that one’s behavior is related to what age one is a creature of. In the age of decay we live by the relational polarity “my wellbeing at your expense” and we see this all the time. I need to rely upon all kinds of behaviors to scrape out a life for myself, sometimes at the expense of someone else. (Romans 13:11-14 as well as many other comparable sections in his epistles.)

If we look at this through Jesus’ language in the age of decay I keep my cheeks from being struck by striking back hard or even a preemptive strike. Again, Jesus never says turning the other cheek won’t get the other one slapped. The justification and motivation for living by the relational polarity of the age to come “your wellbeing at my expense” comes through the cross and resurrection. The inheritance (Ephesians 1) is what counterbalances, and according to Paul greatly overwhelms all that we lose in the age of decay and makes the kind of generosity displayed by Jesus and relayed by Paul not only reasonable and responsible by absolutely joy filled.

When conceiving of this in practical terms, however, it just too often seems imply overwhelming and impossible, especially for rich, comfortable persons like ourselves. If you are at the bottom with little to lose you might as well try Jesus and his way of life. But if you’re at the top, and your heart is deeply attached to the comforts and the privileges established by the age of decay Jesus looks absolutely irresponsible and impractical, which is exactly what honest listeners will say to me when they hear the kinds of things that Jesus says. Steve Martin in “Leap of Faith” said it well to the painted crucifix “You say the meek will inherit the earth. I say all the meek get is the short end of the stick!”

The antithesis of course revolves around who is right. Is it true that we are short lived creatures who must scrap and compete for the short lived comforts of this world and the best we can do is to grab all that we can for now, because of course, “you only live once.”

Or is CS Lewis’ notation correct that we are actually everlasting people and that our central concern ought not to be most of these short term things that are so heavily invested in but rather things that appear as small only because of the presumed short termed reality.

Jesus and Paul (and CS Lewis here) really only make sense if you buy the premise, and in the light of those assertions make all kinds of sense. Things that appear small to us today are actually very LARGE things and most of what the world sees is vastly important is relativized by resurrection and the impending outbreak of the age to come.

Humanity always lives a bit leaning forward into the future. We are addicted prognosticators who are always trying to look into the future to back the future king, buy stock in the company that will win the next market battle. If all authority in heaven and on earth belongs to Jesus, and if we can look at all the fruit of the age of decay and fully realize its shelf-life is exceedingly short, then Jesus makes sense. That sense thought comes at a heavy price.

Again, Paul deems all of this suffering (and he suffered much) as not even worthy to compare with the inheritance that he possessed and had in perfect security in Christ. Such a faith makes illegally charged and tortured prisoners sing songs of joy in stocks at midnight on the floor of a prison cell. Such a faith finds the kind of retribution against his jailer that would be instinctive to me foolish and instead keeps the prisoners in their places only to sit with the family of that jailer later on that evening as brothers and sisters in Christ.

The antithesis is clear. Which truth do I believe?

One option sees anxiety as a necessary survival emotion and makes me consider the people around me to be either beneficial allies or potential threats in my self-centered struggle to secure for myself whatever good I can in my short lifetime. It makes all people tools and pawns, potential subjects of my will. It makes me want to manipulate, control, coerce, do what I can to make them bend and serve. By that option my own life and my experience within it is all that counts, all else is either useful or a threat. Emotionally that option is full of fear, anger, and worry.

If on the other hand all that Jesus and Paul say is true, then I am a short timer in this cruel world and my inheritance is gloriously preserved outside of the age of decay (“don’t store your treasure where moth and rust consume…”) . In this case I am enormously wealthy and blessed, even though liquidity of my inheritance may be someone short at this moment, but my needs are the concern of my heavenly father and so I ought not to worry. Because all of my needs are met, and secure, I am now free to love and enjoy people around me, even my adversaries. I am not in competition with them for the scraps of the age of decay, attention, popularity, wealth, achievement, etc. When someone else succeeds I can cheer them on. When someone else struggles I can mourn with them. In fact even when bad things happen to me they are only short lived. When things don’t go my way I can rest assured that my Father in heaven has history in hand and its conclusion will be glorious and good.

None of this means that I am idle, because why be idle living in the kind of thrilling context we can see. As Chesterton noted we all long for both adventure and security and only the Christian religion gives us both. We live in the midst of a dramatic adventure that is both real and consequential while at the same time that glorious inheritance awaits. We run the race to win for the joy of the race, not out of fear or anxiety.

Again, my challenge is which side to believe and out of which competing belief in my heart will I live out.

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The Everlastingness of Us

This is from CS Lewis’ “Mere Christianity” from the chapter on “The Three Parts of Morality”.

Again, Christianity asserts that every individual human being is going to live for ever, and this must be either true or false. Now there are a good many things which would not be worth bothering about if I were going to live only seventy years, but which I had better bother about very seriously if I am going to live for ever. Perhaps my bad temper or my jealousy are gradually getting worse so gradually that the increase in seventy years will not be very noticeable. But it might be absolute hell in a million years: in fact, if Christianity is true, Hell is the precisely correct technical term for what it would be. And immortality makes this other difference, which, by the by, has a connection with the difference between totalitarianism and democracy. If individuals live only seventy years, then a state, or a nation, or a civilisation, which may last for a thousand years, is more important than an individual. But if Christianity is true, then the individual is not only more important but incomparably more important, for he is everlasting and the life of a state or a civilisation, compared with his, is only a moment.

And that leads on to my second point. People often think of Christian morality as a kind of bargain in which God says, if you keep a lot of rules I’ll reward you, and if you don’t I’ll do the other thing.’ I do not think that is the best way of looking at it. I would much rather say that every time you make a choice you are turning the central part of you, the part of you that chooses, into something a little different from what it was before. And taking your life as a whole, with all your innumerable choices, all your life long you are slowly turning this central thing either into a heavenly creature or into a hellish creature: either into a creature that is in harmony with God, and with other creatures, and with itself, or else into one that is in a state of war and hatred with. God, and with its fellow-creatures, and with itself. To be the one kind of creature is heaven: that is, it is joy and peace and knowledge and power. To be the other means madness, horror, idiocy, rage, impotence, and eternal loneliness. Each of us at each moment is progressing to the one state or the other.

That explains what always used to puzzle me about Christian writers; they seem to be so very strict at one moment and so very free and easy at another. They talk about mere sins of thought as if they were immensely important: and then they talk about the most frightful murders and treacheries as if you had only got to repent and all would be forgiven. But I have come to see that they are right. What they are always thinking of is the mark which the action leaves on that tiny central self which no one sees in this life but which each of us will have to endure or enjoy—for ever. One man may be so placed that his anger sheds the blood of thousands, and another so placed that however angry he gets he will only be laughed at. But the little mark on the soul may be much the same in both. Each has done something to himself which, unless he repents, will make it harder for him to keep out of the rage next time he is tempted, and will make the rage worse when he does fall into it. Each of them, if he seriously turns to God, can have that twist in the central man straightened out again: each is, in the long run, doomed if he will not. The bigness or smallness of the thing, seen from the outside, is not what really matters.

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Fear Energizes Moralism, Desire Energizes Gospel Living

I’m working on Romans 15 for this week’s sermon. I’m struck both by the audacity of Paul’s invitation and the difficulty of following along. The theology is so self-giving, so cruciform, so strenuous.

I’m also struck at how deeply moralism skews our reading of the Bible. The product of my hearing the Bible through this filter is devastating. It poisons the climax of Scripture into some small, twisted, lifeless goal of just making sure we color inbetween the lines. The goal of coloring is beauty, not austerity. Precision itself serves beauty.

Fear energizes moralism, desire energizes the gospel.

All of our sacrificial services for one another comes from the joy of the impending resurrection. The example of this cruciform love is of course Christ himself, but what motivated him? The same thing. He saw through the cross and out through the opening of the tomb into the age to come and so that path that passed through the ordeal he ran with serious joy. Now on the other side he like a father having gone down the big slide before his timid child beckons to take courage, climb the ladder and join him on the other side.

We know that the way was made for us by Christ, and the power to pass through the ordeal also comes from Christ, but the energy required to endure all that the age of decay takes from us in the process comes via Christ from the joy of the resurrection and the age to come.

In Romans 15:1, we who are able ought to support/carry (Gal 6) the weakness of those who are not able.

When seen through the lens of moralism this language produces in me a sinful pride built on what I imagine to be my capacity or strength and looking down upon those who cannot. This is death, not generosity. It is isolation, not fellowship. It is poison for the church, not the welcoming into my group of the other commanded in Rom. 15:7.

Paul describes this self-denial, this refusal to please myself, again pointing to Christ who didn’t please himself but worked for our pleasure. All of this then points to the fulfillment of the passages that follow in the the section with the welcoming of the nations.

At first glance the “ruling” of the ethne seems imperialistic unless we also know the ruler. 1 Samuel has been such a wonderful study in God’s desire that Israel NOT do kingship just like the other nations. The kingship David is prepared for is submissive servanthood which again we see perfectly in Christ and with which this passage drips.

The relational polarity of the age of decay is “my wellbeing at your expense.” This is kingship like the ethne. The relational polarity of the age to come, of the Father, of the Kingdom of Heaven/God is “your wellbeing at my expense”.

The challenge I see is preaching in a way that doesn’t reinforce the determined moralism and fear that energizes so much church work. I want rather (like Paul’s prayer in Ephesians) that they would have such a clear and compelling vision of the resurrection that joy energizes them to willingly and joyfully live in a way that is dramatically irresponsible according to the rules of the age of decay.

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God’s Gentleness, Patience and Silence as necessary precursors for his intimacy with us.

God’s Gentleness, Patience and Silence as necessary precursors for his intimacy with us.

In Chuck De Groat’s wonderful piece on singleness in the church he highlights a very foundational yet too-little-known truth that safety is more important than we know. Safety is the necessary condition for intimacy. Intimacy is that deep longing of ours to know and be known, love and be loved. Intimacy is necessary for true, deep, everlasting satisfaction. Intimacy is the place where there are no walls, there are no secrets, there are no “do not enter” signs. Intimacy is what unhealthy enmeshment fruitlessly attempts to purchase on the cheap. Intimacy is our Biblical destination in our relationship with God.

The reason our longing for intimacy within the age of decay beset by the pitfalls of idolatry is that within the age of decay there is no security. Everything breaks down, everything rots, everything comes undone. All intimacies in the age of decay will be occasioned by sadnesses.

This week I had a conversation with a young man about the foolishess of living together. I remember an episode of The Sopranos where Meadow, Tony Soprano’s beloved daughter is living with her boyfriend and one of them got accepted to a school out of state. This caused a crisis in Meadow’s heart. “What does this mean? Is he looking at this as an opportunity to get away from me? Should I follow him to this other state at the cost of my educational, career and familial aspirations? If he asks me to do this does that mean he doesn’t respect me or value my goals? If he doesn’t ask me does that mean that he wants to be rid of me?” Intimacy requires a context of security, predictability, and trust and within the age of decay our best shot at these things is covenant.

In one of Tim Keller’s sermons he asserts that the difference between a covenant and a contract is the costly commitment of one side to hold faithful to the pledge despite the unfaithfulness of the other. We see it in Hosea. We see it in God’s relentless pursuit of Israel. We know that only God is capable of it because his relational polarity is that of the age to come and all contracts die within the age of decay.

How does this impact the Christian life? God’s commitment to us is unconditional. God’s patience with us is longsuffering. God sometimes observes with us your mother’s maxim “If you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all.” We are such basket cases that if God is to have any hope of intimacy with us he must go to these kinds of lengths to create for us a secure environment in order to acheive what he wants and what he knows we need, intimacy with Him.

So why is God sometimes so quiet? So why does God keep forgiving? So why does God keep allowing terrible, horrible, painful things into the lives of those he loves? So why does he not grow tired even after we have screamed at him in anger to leave and never come back? Because he is who he is and he is stronger, more patient, wiser, and more loving towards us that we are capable of being towards him or towards any other creature. His goal of intimacy with us requires it.

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