Well that didn’t take long

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/nov/09/donald-trump-white-house-hillary-clinton-liberals

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NYTimes: California Today: How Do Top Newspapers Line Up on the Election?

California Today: How Do Top Newspapers Line Up on the Election? http://nyti.ms/2evJWkE

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Jonathan Haidt says that Universities must choose their ultimate telos: truth or social justice

http://heterodoxacademy.org/2016/10/21/one-telos-truth-or-social-justice/

HT. Dreher

The Victim has become sacred . 

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Everyday Feminism tries to negotiate the extremes of the A and the P

The Asexual: http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/11/partners-asexual-now-what/

Poly Privilege http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/11/diary-of-a-polyamorous-black-girl/

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What’s Really Going On with Evangelicals and Same-Sex Marriage | TGC

https://blogs.thegospelcoalition.org/trevinwax/2016/11/02/whats-really-going-on-with-evangelicals-and-same-sex-marriage/

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NYTimes: The Post-Familial Election

The Post-Familial Election http://nyti.ms/2epjLfz

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Dalai Lama in NYTimes on Being Needed

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Internalized Mental Health Stigma

Pop Quiz. Locate this woman’s hope.

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Hell is Family

Hell is Other People

Here is the plot description from Wikipedia of Jean Paul Sartre’s play “No Exit”.

Three damned souls, Joseph Garcin, Inès Serrano, and Estelle Rigault, are brought to the same room in Hell and locked inside by a mysterious valet. They had all expected torture devices to punish them for eternity, but instead find a plain room furnished in the style of the Second French Empire. At first, none of them will admit the reason for their damnation: Joseph says that he was executed for being a pacifist, while Estelle insists that a mistake has been made; Inès, however, is the only one to demand that they all stop lying to themselves and confess to their moral crimes. She refuses to believe that they have all ended up in the room by accident and soon realizes that they have been placed together to make each other miserable; she deduces that they are to be one another’s torturers.

Joseph suggests that they try to leave each other alone and to be silent, but Inès starts to sing about an execution and Estelle vainly wants to find a mirror to check on her appearance. Inès tries to seduce Estelle by offering to be her “mirror” by telling her everything she sees, but ends up frightening her instead. It is soon clear that Inès is attracted to Estelle, Estelle is attracted to Joseph, and Joseph is not attracted to either of the two women.

After arguing, they decide to confess to their crimes so they know what to expect from each other. Joseph cheated on and mistreated his wife; Inès seduced her cousin’s wife while living with them; and Estelle had an affair and then killed the resulting child, prompting the child’s father to commit suicide. Despite their revelations, they continue to get on each other’s nerves. Joseph finally begins giving in to the lascivious Estelle’s escalating attempts to seduce him, which drives Inès crazy. Joseph is constantly interrupted by his own guilt, however, and begs Estelle to tell him he is not a coward for attempting to flee his country during wartime. While she complies, Inès tells him that Estelle is just feigning attraction to him so that she can be with a man – any man.

This causes Joseph to abruptly attempt an escape. After his trying to open the door repeatedly, it inexplicably and suddenly opens, but he is unable to bring himself to leave, and the others remain as well. He says that he will not be saved until he can convince Inès to trust in him. She refuses, saying that he is obviously a coward, and promising to make him miserable forever. Joseph concludes that rather than torture devices or physical punishment, “hell is other people.” Estelle tries to persevere in her seduction of Joseph, but he says that he cannot make love while Inès is watching. Estelle, infuriated, picks up a paper knife and repeatedly stabs Inès. As they are all already dead, this attack does nothing and Inès even halfheartedly stabs herself, beginning to laugh. As Estelle comments on the idea of their being trapped here forever and laughs too, all three join in a prolonged fit of laughter before Joseph finally concludes, “Eh bien, continuons” (roughly “Eh well, let’s continue…”).

The power of the story is how well we can all appreciate it. “Hell is other people”.

We live in the little stories we tell ourselves casting ourselves as the central character. We construct little dramas imagining and hoping that we will attain or succeed or transform, often only to discover that when we finally arrive, it isn’t as we thought it would be.

David as King of Judah

Read 2 Samuel 2-4. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Samuel+2-4&version=NIV It’s a strange passage that gets very little attention. Why should it. Isn’t it mostly just early iron age political intrigue? What could it say to us?

Saul is dead, the Philistines are now free to raid Israel, Saul’s army has fled to the Transjordan with Ishbosheth Saul’s surviving son. David inquires to the Lord where he should go and so he goes to Hebron where he is anointed King of Judah. While he isn’t king over all of Israel, he’s king over a significant portion.

David, through his connections now with the Philistines and his private army in tact likely is protecting Judah from the Philistines and so now he settles in at Hebron. What is interesting is that the focus of the story shifts from David’s thoughts and deeds more to those of Abner and Joab.

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Vox: The Myth of Self-Control

http://www.vox.com/science-and-health/2016/11/3/13486940/self-control-psychology-myth

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