Rebecca Reilly-Cooper

Sex and Gender

Identity Politics have become a cult

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Two Truths to Consider on Transgender Identity

ThinkChristian

 

1. Gender dysphoria is real. Real people experience it and live with it.

2. Culture cultivates. And a culture that cultivates something, by definition, produces more of it.

If gender is a social construct, then so too is transgender identity a cultural phenomenon.
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Is God a character in your story or are you a character in His?

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How do you answer the big questions of life? What are the big questions?

Well you go to the Internet of course. Aren’t all of the answers there?

  • 6 Things Intersex Folks Need to Know About How We Perpetuate Anti-Black Racism
  • Why Saying ‘It’s My Choice’ Doesn’t Necessarily Make Your Choice Feminist
  • 3 Ways My Parents Unintentionally Taught Me That My Consent Didn’t Matter
  • 3 Ways Men Who Loved Me Violated My Consent – And What This Says About Rape Culture
  • 17 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Boys About Sex
  • 5 Things Your Activist Friend Wants You to Stop Doing (Because You’re Wearing Us Out)
  • 4 Ways to NOT Respond to Celebrity Intimate Partner Violence
  • 9 Strategies for Dealing with Body Dysphoria for Genderqueer and Trans Folks
  • 6 Ways to Tell If You Need to Be Called Out
  • 5 Things You Don’t Realize When You Defend Cultural Appropriation
  • 8 Signs Your Yoga Practice Is Culturally Appropriated – And Why It Matters
  • 7 Things We Need to Stop Saying to People Taking Anti-Depressants
  • Here’s What Every Sexually Active Survivor Deserves in Their Sex Life
  • The Terrible Invisibility of Being Bisexual and in Poverty
  • Why Is It So Hard To Be a Good Man?

Haven’t found your question answered? Don’t worry. There is a website that estimates the size of the Web every day. Current guestimates are between 45 and 50 billion webpages.

What Do Churches Do?

Questions people ask, and advice people give have been around far longer than the web. Some churches like this one major in a far smaller book called The Bible where we have conversations that touch in big questions of life.

  • What is this world like?
  • Are people good? Are they safe?
  • What is good in life? What does it mean to be a good person?

The Bible also deals in God. God is a complicated subject right now in the world but it hasn’t always been this way. We live in an unusually skeptical age where we feel embarrassed to talk about God, or nervous to talk about him because there is so much disagreement and by its very nature dealing with God makes conversations ultimate.

I don’t think we need to be quite so sheepish about this. People have been having these conversations for thousands of years and part of what the Bible does is put us in touch with these conversations.

When people say to me that we can’t talk about God because we don’t all agree, or that we could only talk about God where there is agreement, I ask them if they apply these same rules to politics, or economics, or morality or just about anything else that is interesting in our world. We are awash in disagreements but that doesn’t stop us from talking or acting or voting or buying.

Churches are places where we talk about God and trying to live within stories, stories from the Bible. We don’t literally live out those stories but we try to live in that world.

This might seem strange to you but don’t you all the time see people trying to live within Star Wars or Harry Potter or Lord of the Rings or Game of Thrones. People who live in those games usually really don’t quite believe they are doing it. It’s kind of play acting. In church we live within a story, together with a large community, and we, to a certain degree, not as much as we think we ought to, try to live within its story.

I can understand if you think this is weird. It looks that way to our culture right now. It hasn’t always looked that way. It doesn’t look that way to everyone.

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Sky Jethani Video: Why You’re Sick of Church

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How Confessions Relocate Law

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Whichever way you go on LGBTQ you can’t simply deny or avoid stories or judgments like these.

For so many people these stories just expose the judgment of the tellers as self evident, but if you embrace that self-evidence you must also come to grips with the fact that for over a thousand years the other side was equally self-evident.

We live in a world of such claims. A billion people can’t be wrong, right? But in a world of 7 billion people who can’t agree on much most of what they profess is at odds.

Confessions?

In such a world confessions are a tool by which we are able to talk. They are a way by which we can recognize that my experience of self-evidence might not be as naive as I had hoped.

Saw this on Facebook from someone I wouldn’t have imagined would tolerate it much less promote it.

For the Romantics among us such talk is heresy. The piece is flawed by secular pessimism. Just because we can’t see non-human agency doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Christians of course believe that there is a God and he has his way with us, against us, for us, through us.

Why a confessional conversation?

Because saying “God says no” didn’t work on Sinai with the smoke, thunder and earthquakes, and it doesn’t work today with the church made up by SNL.

It seems incredible that after Paul, after the Reformation, Reformed Christians would still have trouble seeing the impotence of the law to deliver on the redemption we don’t always think we need. Maybe this is why Christianity asserts that the law could only be understood by the life of a Jew from Nazareth strung up for law breaking. This accused law breaker declared, and his followers behind him, that he actually fulfilled it, even as he pardoned, loved, and chastised the law breakers among him.

It seems law must always be located in a larger story, one within which it makes sense.

The confession I lean on most for preaching and teaching, the HC, structures itself with Misery, Deliverance, Gratitude. After the first note comfort, it launches into out troubles. We are under judgment because we can’t fulfill the law, and lest you look for cover in skepticism, multi-culturalism or relativism it grabs at the law that OUR culture has enshrined, love. We cannot love. We have a natural tendency to hate God and our neighbor. How do we know this? Yes you can figure this out by reading the Law. You can also hear it in your neighbor’s complaints against you.

Misery, Deliverance, Gratitude relocates law as response. It is the obligation of love not the avoidance of punishment. It becomes what every parent wants from their children, what every lover wants from their beloved, what ever person wants from their neighbor. pvk

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Why you will marry the wrong person

NYTimes

Our partners are no more self-aware. Naturally, we make a stab at trying to understand them. We visit their families. We look at their photos, we meet their college friends. All this contributes to a sense that we’ve done our homework. We haven’t. Marriage ends up as a hopeful, generous, infinitely kind gamble taken by two people who don’t know yet who they are or who the other might be, binding themselves to a future they cannot conceive of and have carefully avoided investigating.

We mustn’t abandon him or her, only the founding Romantic idea upon which the Western understanding of marriage has been based the last 250 years: that a perfect being exists who can meet all our needs and satisfy our every yearning.

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The Creator of Dilbert Thinks Trump will Win in a Landslide

Washington Post

Why?

  1. Trump knows that people are basically irrational
  2. Know that people are irrational Trump aims to appeal to people’s emotions.
  3. By running on emotions facts don’t matter
  4. If facts don’t matter you can’t really be wrong
  5. With fewer facts in play it’s easier to bend reality
  6. To bend reality Trump is a master of identity politics, and identity is the strongest persuader
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7 Toxic Sex Messages I Wish Had Been Debunked Before I Became Sexually Active — Everyday Feminism

http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/06/toxic-sex-messages-debunked/

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US Jewish groups warn of ‘rupture’ if Western Wall deal collapses | Religion News Service

http://religionnews.com/2016/06/02/us-jewish-groups-warn-of-rupture-if-western-wall-deal-collapses/

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Study: Same-sex experiences are on the rise, and Americans are increasingly chill about it – The Washington Post

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2016/06/01/study-same-sex-experiences-are-on-the-rise-and-americans-are-increasingly-chill-about-it/?wpmm=1&wpisrc=nl_evening

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