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Interesting perspective from the creators of this video. I’ve heard guys say things along these lines. One coworker who flat out saod he didn’t want to marry his girlfriend because she might dovorce him to steal his money. Sounds like a high-trust relationship to me. I’ve seen statistics that seem to indicate if you come into marriage with less sex partners the chance of staying married stays considerably higher. And if you view marriage as a commitment and both the husband and wife view it that way, it takes away a lot of these concerns. Seems like a pretty shallow view on the concerns of marriage and doesn’t take into account the very good things men are giving up by avoiding it.