The Ideal Classis Series

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In pondering the Synodical level structure conversation I’ve been doing some thinking about Classis. This isn’t just blogging stuff for me, in Classis Central California we’ve been struggling to figure out how to do Classis nearly constantly ever since I’ve been here.

Books

After doing some writing someone pointed me to the book The Fly in the Ointment by Crabtree. I haven’t read a lot of books on “middle level judiciaries” or “regional associations”, I don’t know how many of them there are out there (drop suggestions in the comments if you’ve got one).

I’ve gotten about half way through Crabtree’s book. I’ll try to at least skim through the end. I read A LOT of church growth stuff in the late 90s. My view on the genre matches some of the comments Tim Keller made in his Center Church book.

  • There is value in gleaning technique principles and suggestions
  • There really are no formulas for “success”
  • You do need to address theological content questions and approaches too (“theological vision” as Keller puts it)

Regional Associations Are Key Right Now

What I most appreciate about Crabtree’s book is his thesis that “regional associations” are probably the most important level that we need to address right now for church revitalization in North America. It’s for that reason that I’ll try my hand at this series to outline some ideas I have and try to develop some more as I write.

Introductory Notes

  • The blog format isn’t necessarily ideal for this, but it’s what I’ve got time for at the moment. I’ll distribute this over a series of posts. This page will have the central directory.
  • I welcome comments. The CRC Pastors Facebook Page has become probably volume wise the most important social media resource for engaging the largest number of CRC pastors. If you drop a substantive comment there it would be nice to also cut and paste it in the comment section on the blog so that those who access it from CRC-Voices and Twitter can read it as well.
  • I’ll probably add some stuff from our Classis Central California conversation as well. We’re doing more revisioning now. If you have stuff from your classis to add put it in the comments or if you have more material we can put it up on Google Docs or consider writing a guest blog post.

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Hell Hath No Fury…

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My “Naked” Truth

This last week a Huffington Post piece went viral. It was written by Robin Korth who describes herself as an “international speaker and writer”. This description is supposed to convey status, is it not?

She opens the piece describing herself looking at herself in a mirror. She gives her vision of her naked body good marks, considering 59 years and the scar left by a C-section by which she produced a son. She considers herself, like the children of Lake Wobegon, “above average”.

If it not good for man to be alone, we might imagine that the same goes for woman. She doesn’t tell us of her past relationship or relationships. She clearly has had at least one, enough to produce a child. A woman of status like her has probably had a few, probably with men of status as well. All it seems have ended, perhaps not with death but rather failure.

She did what routine now in the cyber age and found a man, Dave, on an Internet dating service. The crowd-sourcing, expert matchmakers seem to do their job well, I’m sure far better and more rationally than meeting someone in a bar or at work. They hit it off. They enjoyed each other’s company for a time and then both decided they wanted to take the relationship to a new level.

I was enticed and longed for the full knowing of this man. And so, we planned a weekend together. That’s when things got confusing, unspoken and just-not-quite there. We went to bed in a couple’s way — unclothed and touching — all parts near. Kisses were shared and sleep came in hugs. I attempted more intimacy throughout the weekend and was deterred each time.

On Monday evening over the phone, I asked this man who had shared my bed for three nights running why we had not made love. “Your body is too wrinkly,” he said without a pause. “I have spoiled myself over the years with young women. I just can’t get excited with you. I love your energy and your laughter. I like your head and your heart. But, I just can’t deal with your body.”

How would you respond if you were in her shoes, or in perhaps in her skin?

I was stunned. The hurt would come later. I asked him slowly and carefully if he found my body hard to look at. He said yes. “So, this means seeing me naked was troublesome to you?” I asked. He told me he had just looked away. And when the lights were out, he pretended my body was younger — that I was younger. My breath came deep and full as I processed this information. My face blazed as I felt embarrassed and shamed by memories of my easy nakedness with him in days just passed.

He proceeded to give her some “tips” on how she might maker herself more appealing to him. How do you think THAT went over?

She basically told him to go to hell and then she proceeded to write this piece which has gotten more than half a million hits on Facebook. We might not know who “Dave” is but he sure does.

The Facebook meta-tag says “Man tells woman he can’t get turned on by her aging body — and she reacts perfectly!”

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Secular University and Christian College

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If I were to characterize my experience since coming to Wheaton four years ago, these are the words that first come to mind — divided no more. Wheaton is not a perfect place, nor did I expect it to be one when I came here. But I can honestly say that I have experienced much greater academic freedom at Wheaton than I ever did at the secular university that I left.

 

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A Church for Exiles by Carl R. Trueman | Articles | First Things

http://www.firstthings.com/article/2014/08/a-church-for-exiles

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JDR Kirk Frozen as Story of Christian Love

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Don’t believe the movies, you already use more than 10% of your brain

The Atlantic

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What Makes a Company Division “Christian”

CT

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Woman Rejects her Lover As He Criticizes Her Body

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This is a fascinating article. It is the conflict between two relational consumers. In this case the man just wants companionship and the woman wants sex, the ironic reverse of where they would have been thirty years ago. She decides at his rebuff to go somewhere else to get sex. He liked her for her other qualities and maybe decided he’d get sex from someone younger but have her for companionship. They are both using someone else as a function of their needs. They both demand that people mirror back to them the affirmation they desired. She wanted to be affirmed through sex. He wanted to be affirmed through companionship.

She’ll likely be able to find someone willing to have sex with her, and he’ll likely find someone willing to give him companionship. What they both will have difficulty with is finding someone who won’t treat them as a commodity partly because both are approaching relationships as consumers of persons.

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United Methodist Pastor Dies By Setting Himself on Fire to Protest Injustice

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The Science-Religion Crisis at Christian Colleges

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5565641

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